Is It Really Your Right to Be Hellish?

First of all, I love the timing of this post because my boo Nick Jonas is now single and I will watch him singing "Jealous" with a gospel choir over and over in honor of this joyous day. Anyway, jealousy in relationships has been known to bring out … [Continue reading]

The One Thing I Really Love About Being an Adult

I don't know what it is, but as soon as I turned 27 I started to feel really old. I know, I know. Growing older is a privilege denied to many. Absolutely. But some days I wish I could go back to being a kid so I could avoid worrying about life … [Continue reading]

Why Other People’s Relationships Just Don’t Matter

The other day I was talking with a friend who's been seeing a guy for about six months. They still haven't dropped the "I love you" bomb on each other yet, and she was feeling self-conscious because our other friend is swapping it left and right with … [Continue reading]

Sometimes I Worry That I’m Becoming a Commitment Phobe…

I was in a relationship for five years. In some states that's practically a common law marriage, and needless to say it's a big commitment. Yet now that I've been single for more than a year, I worry that somewhere along the way I've become a bit of … [Continue reading]

Why Our “Swipe Right” Culture is Killing Long-Term Relationships

My last relationship lasted five years. Half a decade. That's a long time, and though the relationship ultimately was flawed, I can look back on it and say we went in with grit and determination. We worked through problems and had bad fights, but … [Continue reading]