The One Thing We All Forget About Relationships

I have many smart and wonderful friends, but the other night I was out with one especially smart and wonderful one, my pal Katie. She’s been dating a great guy for a while, so I like to chat with her about relationships, especially when I’m having a day when I’m convinced I’m going to have to […]

How to Be a Better Dater

When people know you write about dating/relationships, you get asked about bad dates a lot. How many have you been on? What happened? They want the gory details. I usually disappoint these people by telling them the truth: I only went on one really bad date, and in the grand scheme of things it wasn’t even […]

The One Piece of Dating Advice You Should Definitely Ignore

When you’re dating, you hear about all kinds of “rules” that you should play by in order to keep the other person interested in you. In fact, there are entire books written on the subject. You’ll read that you should wait a certain period of time before returning a text, for example. Always letting the […]

The One Thing You Should Really Stop Doing If You’re Single

If you’re like me, every single time you log onto Facebook or check out Instagram, someone else you know is announcing that they’re engaged and are so excited to be marrying their best friend. You feel happy for them, of course, but there’s also this tiny part of your brain that’s like, “Oh my God, […]

Sorry But Finding a Significant Other Isn’t Like Shopping Online

This post is for anyone who’s ever been told, “Oh my Godddd, why are you still single? You’re such a catch!” or “I just don’t get it. Have you tried online dating? My friend met her boyfriend that way!” or other things of that nature. It’s also for you if you pride yourself on having your shizz sort of together, […]